12/14/08

Nakaka-ilang relationship ka na? 4, 5, 6, or hindi mo na mabilang sa sobrang dami… baka nga halos lahat ng petsa sa kalendaryo ay naging petsa na ng monthsary niyo… Hindi ka ba nagtataka kung bakit parang walang mag work out sa mga naging relationships mo? Hindi ka ba napapa-isip kung ano nga ba ang reason kung bakit ‘di kayo nag tatagal at halos every month eh iba lagi ang hawak mong kamay… bakit nga ba? Ikaw ba mismo ang may kasalanan or sila?

I myself had 4 previous relationships at sad to say but lahat puro sad endings… Pero masasabi ko na lahat sila minahal ko… ‘di nga lang nag work out… Anyway it’s not ‘bout me and my past ang pag uusapan natin now… ”it’s why we keep on falling in and out of love… so fast”… lalim noh? Anyway, bakit nga ba sa tuwing mag kakahiwalay kayo ng minamahal mo ay parang kay bilis natin silang palitan at bibilang lang tayo ng araw at for sure may kapalit na agad sila at tila ba parang walang nangyaring breakups at iyakan… Nagtataka talaga ako sa mga taong mabilis pa sa alas’ dose kung mag palit ng ka relasyon?

We all know that time alone cannot heal our bruised heart… we need someone to patch it up for us… that someone maybe our friends, family, our bestfriends, pero madalas sa maling paraan tayo humahanap ng cure sa pain na nararamdaman natin sa tuwing dumadaan tayo sa break-up stage ng relationship natin. Naguguluhan kayo? Well your not alone… kasi kahit akong author ng blogs na ito naguguluhan din.

Try to think about this… after we have said our goodbye’s and after all those buckets of tears that we shed… how do we find ourselves? ‘Di ba broken? And when we are broken… we usually don’t make good decisions when we are still vulnerable from the pain of breakups… Kaya madalas akala natin solution yung pag hahanap or pag pasok sa isang relationship “agad” kahit hindi pa healed yung heart natin… only to find out na hindi natin kinilala muna yung taong minahal natin ang soon you’ll find yourself crying again… paulit ulit lang ‘di ba? Bakit hindi mo itry na ipag day off muna ang puso mo? For a change, instead na mag hanap ka ng bagong love life try mong mag libang na lang with your friends at family… I’m not saying na ‘wag ka ng mag hanap ng love life mo… all I’m saying is that pag pahingahin mo muna yung puso mo… try to find out kung ano ba talaga ang problema at ‘di kayo nag tatagal… make a list ng mga hinahanap mo sa isang tao, basta all I’m telling you is try to find out kung ano ba ang problema sa iyo at walang nag tatagal na relationship mo? At wag ka masyadong mag madali…. ‘di ka mauubusan ng love life…. hehehehe

3 comments:

"At wag ka masyadong mag madali…. ‘di ka mauubusan ng love life…."

nyaha! bagay na bagay sa last name ko, di maubusan!!! wahaha!

ako nakailan na??? hmmm, lemme see, ugh, wak mo na itanong. piz!

nice posts, sana maraming makabasa nito. you do have wonderful entries here..

btw, thanks for dropping by..i'll be leaving my site for a while, but you're still welcome to enjoy my coffee. i'll add you up if it's okay so i can track you down next time i'll blog, thanks!

cheers!

December 15, 2008 at 3:15 PM
D said...

Para sa akin, love is a decision. When you love someone, you choose to stay with that person and you do everything to work things out. No relationship is ever perfect, there will always be misunderstandings and fights kasi different naman tayong lahat eh. Even when two people are somehow similar in personality, talagang may differences pa rin, but if you really love each other, then you would not give up so easily. I don't think that those people who change boyfriends like changing tee shirts have really experienced true or deep love. Maybe they think that they love the person but not really, kasi love is deep, it goes beyond the imperfections and flaws and it fights for the relationship, especially when the going gets tough,hindi yung tipong pag boring na ang relationship or pag wala ng kilig and sige na away, break na agad. And pag totoong minahal mo ang isang tao, it wouldn't - it shouldn't- be that easy to get over that person. If it is, then maybe you really have not loved him/her.

December 27, 2008 at 5:04 PM
 


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