1/3/09

Kamusta na ang communication mo with your love ones? Open pa ba? Madalas ba kayong mag usap, Nag kikita pa ba kayo at nag kakasama? Or is it the other way around?Siguro aminin niyo man o hindi… malaking part ng relationship ang communication and I’m not just talking about that boyfriend/girlfriend thing… sakop din nito ang relationship mo with your family, friends at lahat ng taong pinapahalagahan mo…

For me without it parang ang hirap mag maintain ng isang relationship, for example na lang sa girlfriend/boyfriend thing, without it parang ‘di mo alam kung saan ka lulugar…. If “kayo” pa ba or hindi na… if ipag-papatuloy niyo pa ba at hahayaang masaktan ka or would you just end it. Ilang relationship na din ang nawala sa akin dahil lang sa kawalan ng communication… and you know whats funny about it? Nasa age tayo ng communication ‘di ba at napakarami ng ways para lang ma-contact mo yung mga mahal mo sa buhay… we have the internet, our cellphones, land lines, beepers (teka may beeper pa ba?) and not to mention we still have our snail mail so walang reason para mawalan kayo ng communication sa isa’t-isa pero ewan ko ba minsan parang wala talagang way para makapag-usap kayo, it is as if parang lahat ng options mo ay tila ba unti-unting nawawala…


Minsan parang sa umpisa lang maayos ang communication niyo pero pag tumagal-tagal na ay unti-unting nababawasan at the next thing you know ay totally wala na kayo… Madami siguro sa inyo lalo na yung may mga long distance relationship, mga nasa ibang bansa or nasa province yung mga mahal natin sa buhay ay umaasa lang sa communication… at minsan aminin man natin o hindi pag nawala yun parang kasabay din nawawala yung trust… OH!! Wag kang mag react kasi may point din ako ‘di ba? Kaya nga for me, lahat ginagawa ko wag lang maputol ang communication namin…

Ayoko kasing ma ulit yung mga nangyari sa amin ng mga ex ko… Pasensya na if ganito yung naisulat ko…. … And if you’re in the same situation, wag mo puputulin yung communication niyo sa isa’t-isa…. Before it’s too late

5 comments:

cyndirellaz said...

well kaya nga kahit mahal ang long distance, never ko talaga siyang gini- give up. di bale ng mahal kesa naman sa walang peace of mind!

January 3, 2009 at 11:09 PM
PaJAY said...

naks...galeeng ng comment ni cyndi a...
sasangayon na rin ako....lolz

lang originality!..hahaha...tama kasi c cyndi e...

January 4, 2009 at 12:22 AM
Dhianz said...

sendali... nabasa koh comment ni kuya EJ sau... nawala akoh saglit sa sasabihin koh... kuya pajay.. naka-relate bah?... lolz...

uy! saulkrisna big bro... r u ok?... sanah ok ka lang... tc of urself alright...

and hmmm.... yeah... i do believe communication really plays a big part in a relationship... yeah esp. don sa may mga ka-LDR... i had few LDR relationships myself... but it wasn't really dat serious... but yeah usually tawag sa fone... kulang ang isang araw nang nde moh nakakausap... hanggang dumating sa point na somethin' happened and naging cold na sa isa't isa... and hanggang naputol na ang communication... d' next thing u know.. 'la na kayoh... and i had to move on... of course nasaktan... but i guess we weren't meant to be...

so yeah... juz wanna say don't wori so much about ur relatioship... i don't blame u cuz u got hurt before and of course ur inluv right now... but trust God lang on ur situation... nde naten kontrol lahat nang maaaring mangyari... if God really meant you two to be together for d' rest of ur lives... eh di kahit anong bagyo pa yang pagdaanan nyoh eh magiging kayo pa ren... less worries and juz enjoy d' moment w/ her... juz trust Him... =)

GODBLESS! -di

January 4, 2009 at 12:54 AM
michy said...
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michy said...

The only true painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained----> SO TRUE!!!! been there like 4 times with the same guy... yung nawawala nlng parang bula? Why are men such jerks?!!! hahaha!
Btw, thanks for reading my blog. wasn't really expecting that dudes would actually like what i'm saying! hehe

January 6, 2009 at 6:01 PM
 


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